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Owens and Owens – Setback for Divorcing Couples

Unreasonable behaviour: a means to petition for divorce

Unreasonable behaviour: a means to petition for divorceThe judgement in the case of Owens and Owens – made available by the Supreme Court on 25th July 2018 – has been widely covered in the media with criticism of both the judiciary and the state of the law.

The facts of the matter were that Mr and Mrs Owens, aged 79 and 67 respectively separated after a (then) 37 year marriage in 2015.  Mrs Owens brought a petition seeking to prove the irretrievable breakdown of the marriage by alleging that Mr Owens had behaved in such a way that it was unreasonable to expect her to continue to live with him.  She was refused a divorce by the Judge in the first hearing, who heard evidence over one day which dealt with only 4 of her 27 allegations.  He specifically refused to consider the cumulative effect that the alleged behaviour might have had over a period of time.  Mrs Owens appealed to the Court of Appeal who agreed with the trial Judge and from there she appealed again to the Supreme Court who reluctantly found that the trial Judge had been correct in his application of the law.

Contrary to popular belief
A quick detour into the law: contrary to popular belief there is only one basis for dissolving a marriage which is that it has irretrievably broken down.  There are five available grounds for proving that irretrievable breakdown

  1. Adultery
  2. “Unreasonable behaviour”
  3. Desertion for 2 years
  4. Separation for 2 years plus the other party’s consent
  5. Separation for 5 years

In respect to an unreasonable behaviour petition, the practice has come about that – provided a respondent to a petition indicates that he or she will not defend the divorce – they are at the same time allowed to say that they do not accept the allegations made are in any way true.  The Judge examining the case on a  paperwork basis only will then allow the petition to proceed provided there is some allegation of unhappiness caused by the respondent or some criticism levied at him or her.

PHOTO: Karen Anker, Family Law & Divorce Solicitor

Karen Anker, Family Law Solicitor at Barr Ellison

Encouraged to make allegations as mild as possible
There is active encouragement both in the Law Society Family Law Protocol and from Resolution (the representative body for family practitioners) to make allegations of behaviour as mild as possible, so as to cause the minimum offence and to enable the parties to divorce in as civilised a way as possible without having to wait for a 2-year period to pass.  This is especially relevant where the parties agree that there should be a divorce but do not agree how to divide their family finances to enable them to live in separate properties and need the guidance of a court, or in the cases where each spouse needs separate pension income from a pension sharing order which can only be achieved in the context of a divorce.

It is worrying then for those acting and advising in this area of law to find so little support from the judiciary when this approach is challenged by a husband whose motives for defending the petition must be presumed to be financial as Mr and Mrs Owens no longer lived together.

No one wants a return to acrimonious allegations
No one really wants a return to pages and pages of allegations that are hurtful and acrimonious, simply to ensure that they will be passed fit by a Judge.  It must be sincerely hoped that the Judges will not change their practice with regard to undefended petitions in the light of this judgement.  The lead Judge in the Court of Appeal commented that the particulars of behaviour set out initially in Mrs Owen’s petition would not have caused any problem for a Judge where the petition was unopposed.

In the Supreme Court, Lady Hale did set out that the behaviour complained of does not have to be the cause of the breakdown of the marriage and gave her strong concern that the trial judge may have underplayed the cumulative effect of a great many small incidents said to be indicative of authoritarian, demeaning and humiliating conduct over a period of time.  This gives hope for those who have simply tired of being mistreated or emotionally abused or controlled that, despite the ruling in Owens, they could still bring their marriage to an end.

What this does mean is that it will become more necessary to seek to agree the allegations of behaviour before any petition is lodged with the court.  It will still be (I suggest) unusual for the “average” man or woman to make the effort to defend a petition relying on his or her unreasonable behaviour.  If there are other areas of dispute, say over finances or the arrangements for the children, these should be the focus of people’s efforts to reach a resolution.  The wording of a petition should properly be seen as a means to an end.

Where one party simply does not want to be divorced, careful drafting is required
But there will be cases where for financial reasons or feelings of principle, one party will simply not want to be divorced.  It is now essential that proper advice is taken as to the available grounds to prove irretrievable breakdown of the marriage and if the only ground is the other party’s behaviour, then careful drafting will be required, referring to incidents which would make the reasonable “man or woman on the Boris Bus with their Oyster Card in 2017” (to quote the Court of Appeal judgement) agree that it was behaviour that it was not reasonable to expect that petitioner to live with.

For more information please contact Karen Anker, Family Law & Divorce Solicitor 

Disclaimer: While we do all that is possible in terms of ensuring its accuracy, this blog contains general information only. Nothing in these pages constitutes legal advice. You need to consult a suitably qualified lawyer from the firm on any specific legal problem or matter.

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